UPDATE: YAY, I'm back!!! Turns out that although there were domain name registrar problems, a file had gone missing at my host - 2 hrs after sending in the ticket it's fixed - I tell you, Murphy and I, we're great mates!
Please, someone take me out the back and engrave "don't click on anymore buttons' into my forehead.
It's been 5 days, no luck on the domain name front. So I clicked the retry button. Big bloody mistake! I also sent a note off to customer support, hoping they might be able to tell me more.
"annedouglas.com was in regsuccess, but was re-confirmed today for some reason, and that will reset the transfer back to the beginning of 5 days to approval from losing registrar. Once it goes back to regsuccess let registerfly take the 5 days to approve, and you don' t need to click on retry buttons."
Fuckity fuck fuck fuck!
Okay, back to regular scheduling now that I've had my little mental breakdown!